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As a christians should i care what others think of me?

December 16th, 2009
some guy asked:


my eyes are really scary , when i go out i wear sunglasses or squint my eyes so they look less scary,

people stare and point at me , i just hide somewhere

i have friends, is that enough ?should i care what others think of me


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December 16th, 2009 05:45:41
32 comments

Losasha
December 18, 2009

Hell no!

Make lotsa **** and you’ll feel better about yourself! =)


direct.tiger
December 21, 2009

like the vampires in underworld movie or even worse


Micheal L
December 23, 2009

Your name says it all about your bogus question, or what every it is you are trying to communicate!


Just Me
December 24, 2009

no you should not care. yes friends are enough they like you the way you are.


The Chancer.
December 25, 2009

Are you having a laugh?


Nonya B
December 27, 2009

no but with a name like **** ***** you should *sshole


SouthernPrincess88
December 28, 2009

Technically NO, but you should give a proper example for people. If you are doing that and acting Christ like then what they think of you is irrelevant and if they think bad things thats between them and God. thats what the Bible says anyway.


Slow Hand
December 28, 2009

Nope…..

What makes you think your eyes are scary? Are they red? Do you have 3 eyes?
I think it’s all in your head.
Become a **********. They will help out your self esteem.


$0uMy@
January 1, 2010

u must give their words a damn
and move on with what u feel comfy with……….


sophialw@ymail.com
January 3, 2010

it’s hard to say you should care because it’s human nature to want to be accepted. enjoy and appreciate the friends you have and live confidently as you were made.


Be Blessed
January 4, 2010

We are not here to please man, we are here to please God.


Phil
January 5, 2010

scary eyes = awesome eyes
it doesnt matter who you are you never have to care what people think


Rob F
January 6, 2010

This is a hard one. I would say yes and no at the same time.

No - what God thinks should matter most.

Yes - you don’t want to do anything that would cause another to stumble in their faith.

That is the best answer I can give.


Oliver C
January 9, 2010

this is a hard one
id say no


Katie Rose
January 9, 2010

Embrace being different! I have acne & I can make my eyes HUGE (it scares my bf hahaha) & my teeth have a space between them & I **** IT LOL & I’m a Christian. Just be who you are & if people don’t like it, thats their problem.


Heather B
January 12, 2010

When you got saved, you were warned it would not be easy. Following Christ has always been hard, just like when Christ died for us it was hard but he loves us so much that he had to do it. As a Christian, we are not supposed to care what other people think of us, we are supposed to spread the word, so if you are ashamed why would anyone else want to be a Christian, we are supposed to be examples of Christ’s love and show the world the only way to Heaven is through him.


ce ce
January 15, 2010

first of all i dont like ur name…no u should not care… God made u unique…if u look hard enough at a person u will always see “flaws” something that is wrong with them..nobody is perfect….i dont care what people think about me…


Chris B
January 17, 2010

Well, Firstly… You will want to be confident with who you are. You will find that confidence in God; but also you should take pride in yourself as in the words of the Band Gary Go… ‘You are Wonderful and a Miracle’.


yelllin_out
January 19, 2010

I’m not particularly religious myself but i am sure that it doesn’t state anywhere in the bible that you should or shouldn’t care about what people think about you.

I don’t think you should care about what people care about you because at the end of the day your never going to see them again.

If you have scary eyes then instead hiding them you should concentrate on showing your more positive features for instance if people look at you then smile at them at try to look happy rather than worried about the fact that their staring at you. :)


Jean A
January 21, 2010

No it does not matter what anyone thinks of you,be who you want to be not what they want you to be.If i seen you I would probably think you had the most unique and prettiest eyes witch you probably do one of a kind:)


cameron w
January 22, 2010

Dear Mr Scary Eyes,

I would suggest that you smile more and call yourself friendlier names, (not **** crack), although you might see it as funny, others that you want to see you as less threatening will only fear you more due to your lack of self worth and consideration for others view of you.

You should find the outcasts of your area and befriend them, you will be like that of hunch back of notordam if you allow yourself to become the image of others perception. You need to lighten your load of others perception and create something different. Ask God to make you more approachable and he will lighten your load. “Lean not on your own understanding, but in all of your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths”.


Jacky The Jr.
January 22, 2010

No, you shouldnt care what tohers think, God made you who you are, dont try to look good for others. be yourself


Truthteller
January 25, 2010

No, not at all concerning the appearance, but only in regard that your manner of living reflects the Gospel of Christ.


awaken.dawn
January 28, 2010

God created you and you are precious in His eyes …you are the apple of His eyes –Zech 2:8 ….and Jesus wants to call you His friend —-john 15: 14,15 ….and Jesus loves you –2Thess 2:16….comfort your heart


Yaggs -
January 31, 2010

it doesnt matter is you have scary eyes or whatever. By the way, it doesnt matter that ur a christian, you should never care what others think of you. Be proud of yourself, be happy. :-)


Prison officer
January 31, 2010

No! You should not care. Your Spiritual life is more important. You are unique, no one except yourself will ever be you. It matters not what you look like, but what is inside you. I have seen physically ugly and deformed individuals. Their souls, their being where so full of beauty and love. I have seen people who were physically beautiful. Inside was desolation, souls consumed with pride and lust. Very ugly indeed.
Just be who you are, scary eyes or not.


God Loves Us All
February 3, 2010

NO. I used to go through the same dillema. The bible tells us to be prepared to move on. If people laugh at you, their not you friends. I get laughed at all the time because my hair style makes me look slightly feminime to other people. I have learned to ignore it. Anyways, I’m sure that your eyes aren’t thatt bad, and god made you special, don’t forget that.


ver_jen
February 3, 2010

I am not sure why your eye’s would be scary but I wouldn’t worry about being embarrassed when I go out. Do your best to be the best person you can and love yourself. Others who don’t know you might look out of curiosity but if they get to know you, they will see God’s light in you and your physical imperfections will fade.

When one can love as God loves, it tends to diminish our personal outer flaws. People will see the beauty within you and not see your eyes. ( I know, I have had boyfriends who were handicapped and after a while, I didn’t even notice anymore)


manoj G
February 5, 2010

How does relgion matter in this case…
have faith in yourself…
what matters is just your THINKING and not outer beauty..
REMEMBER…..
You will be… what you think of yourself. so always be positive.


spyro
February 6, 2010

religion is irrelevant. as a person you shouldn’t care what others think of you.


martyb5154+SFCU+pray4revival
February 8, 2010

The eyes are the windows of the soul.I have very expressive eyes myself and if I was having a bad day where it seems that everybody and everything was against me,it would register in my eyes.Fill yourself with the love of God and see what happens.Yes,we should care what God thinks of us a whole lot more than what people think,but the Bible has a lot to say about our appearance and manners as not to lay a stumbling block before them.The Bible says in Psalms 5 that God surrounds us with favor as with a shield.Claim that verse for yourself and claim as yours everyday.See what happens.God bless.


Krissie M is very hyper today:))
February 8, 2010

You shouldn’t care what ppl think of you!

I have scary eyes too…I have pitch black eyes and they are big too…lol!

I don’t care what they think,if they have a problem with me they can come say it to my face….which they know not to do…lol…!

Ignore them:)

If you have friends that is enough:)

Good Luck!

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